Marjie Siegfried-Stuber, Wedding Officiant

Marjie Siegfried-Stuber, Wedding Officiant

5.0Exceptional(7 reviews)

About

I am a church-ordained minister, and I happily honor marriage equality, so all are welcome to inquire, regardless of sexual orientation, gender identity, age, or religious preference (including none - I am happy to provide secular marriage ceremonies).

I've been told that the personalization I offer couples has made a real difference in their wedding experience. I often hear, "That was the best wedding ceremony I've ever attended." and that is a high compliment! But I also know it's not about ME. It's about focusing the ceremony on who the couple is and the commitment they're making during that ceremony!

I customize the ceremony to the couple. I do not have a 'canned' message or ceremony. We work together to have the ceremony they want and deserve on their wedding day.


Highlights

Hired 2 times
1 employee
35 years in business
Serves Kansas City , MO

Details

Ceremony type

Wedding, Elopement, Commitment ceremony, Vow renewal

Service type / affiliation

Christian, Catholic, Jewish, Muslim, Buddhist, Interfaith, Non-denominational (mentions God), Non-religious (no mention of God)

Number of guests

20 guests or fewer, 21 – 50 guests, 51 – 100 guests, 101 – 150 guests, 151 – 200 guests, 201 – 300 guests

Need help writing vows

I can work with couples who need help writing vows, I can work with couples who do not need help writing vows

Ceremony language(s)

English

Officiant needed at rehearsal

I can attend rehearsals

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Bethany C.

01-26-2021
After a lot of issues trying to find someone who was available within such a short notice I used Fash as my last resort and thats when Marjie found me. My now husband is shipping out to basic training on Feb 8th with little room to get legal things done so I was in a bit of a panic but Im so happy we got to do this! Even though it was a rush it was still memorable and sweet, Marjie has good vibes and is very sweet, down to Earth kind of personality. And definitely worth the 2 hour drive, we made a nice road trip out of it and I was able to text her the whole way.
I definitely recommend Marjie to anyone getting married anytime soon!
I cant thank her enough for doing this for us!
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January 27, 2021
Hired on Fash

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Kristie D.

Marjie did an excellent job of personalizing the ceremony. She was personable and very easy to work with. Marjie made Chelse and Ians special day even more special! Thank you!
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June 30, 2020
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Piper W.

Marjie officiated our wedding in 2014. She was amazing. With very little preparation time, she got to know us and what we wanted and made our service so personal and intimate. It was exactly what we wanted! We could not have been more pleased with our special day. - Feb 17 2019
She was so genuine and the service was so personal and intimate- exactly what we wanted. - Jun 21 2019
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February 17, 2020

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Ashley B.

Marjie had a wonderful pre-wedding meeting with us and had us each answer questions about the other. It was so wonderful how she used those answers during the ceremony, much to our surprise! She did the ceremony beautifully, I couldnt have asked for anyone better!
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June 28, 2019

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Regina S.

Marjie made the effort to really get to know each of us, asking us to answer open-ended questions and complete fill-in-the-blank sentences about ourselves. Using this information, as well as observations she made on her own, Marjie made our wedding so personal and heartfelt. Being a same-sex couple, it can be difficult to find those who are willing to perform a wedding ceremony but she made us feel so comfortable and accepted. Marjie was also a huge help in coordinating others who were involved.
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June 24, 2019

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Roylene

She made it our Wedding. Some officiants suggest you do certain things. Marjie made our wedding very special and honored how we wanted our wedding! Would definitely refer friends to her. Was very God driven as what we wanted.
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June 21, 2019

Frequently asked questions

It is highly personalized by the couple's wants and needs.  I like to find out at least enough information about the couple to engage those who attend the wedding; I know that not everyone who attends will know both the people getting married, and I believe it's my job to make the ceremony meaningful for all those present!  Feel free to contact me for more information.

I have been an ordained minister for 17 years, and weddings are the most joyous of all the sacraments I've performed.  I personalize each ceremony; there is no "cookie cutter" marriage and there's no "cookie cutter" wedding!

My pricing takes into consideration the number of hours needed for preparation, travel, and the event(s) itself.  I customize the price each time to accommodate for the number of hours my services are requested.

My start as an officiant began when I was "called" into the priesthood in 2003.  Since then, I've been fortunate enough to be asked by friends and family to officiate weddings.  This is not a business to me; it's a joyful calling.

I have worked with couples embarking on their first marriages (some with and some without children yet), couples embarking on their second marriages with divorce or widowhood in their past, same-gender couples, and non-binary couples.  Love is love, and it's a blessing to see it shared!

I married college sweethearts who reconnected 30 years later.  They never forgot that intense romantic love they'd had, and they rekindled it with the maturity and life experience that only come from living a full life.  They blessed my life with their refreshed love and commitment.

I am planning my own wedding for November 2020, and that's exciting, too!

Seek someone who will incorporate WHO YOU ARE into your ceremony.  I believe it's important to include your own personalities and information into the ceremony so everyone is engaged and everyone gets a sense of who you both are.

What is it you're really requesting?  Are you okay with a stock/standard ceremony - if so, you will pay less for the service, and that's absolutely fine with many couples.  Are you asking for someone to take charge so you can relax and enjoy your special day - if so, you will pay more, but it will enable you to focus on your own experience and not worry so much about the logistics of the day.

Some questions to ask:

* Why is your price so high (or low)?

* How many times will we need to talk with you, and for how long?

* How do we pay you, and when?

* What can you do to make my wedding day less stressful?

* Is there anything you do that others don't, and vice versa?


Services offered

Wedding Officiant