Blue Oaks Church

About

My desire is to come alongside a couple to create a wedding ceremony that celebrates the marriage and inspires those in attendance.

I'm a licensed pastor and have officiated over one hundred weddings in the last twenty years.

You can find me at Blue Oaks Church. www.blueoaks.church

I enjoy helping people on their jouney in life, marriage being one of the most siginificant steps on that journey. I enjoy working with couples to create unique wedding cermemonies that are meaningful for all in attendance. I also enjoy working behind the scenes to make what I say inspirational and in line with the couples desires.


Highlights

15 employees
12 years in business
Serves Pleasanton , CA

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    Reba A.

    We had the privilege of Matt officiating our wedding in 2014. He was eloquent, thoughtful and connected all our guests to our love story. Many of our relatives after the wedding expressed to me that it was the best ceremony they had been to, and I thank Matt for clearly articulating our personality and love during the ceremony. I would 100 percent recommend Matt!
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    May 26, 2020

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    Joyce M.

    Matt is a blessing to our family. In 2012, he officiated our wedding. He and his family came to Montana and performed our service in a chapel in Yellowstone park. It was our second marriage, which made me question the “proper” way to have our ceremony. He gave us guidance and support. I felt confident and comfortable, and we focused on our love for each other and God. Thank you, Matt!
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    May 17, 2020

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    Kelly L.

    Matt did an outstanding job officiating our wedding. The words he used for the ceremony were genuine. Highly recommend to make your wedding day smooth and stress free.
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    May 05, 2020

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    Holly R.

    My husband and I were so grateful to have Pastor Matt officiate our wedding. He helped make our vows so personal and individual to us. He has a way with words that really struck our hearts during our ceremony. In fact, he left such impression on our family my sister and brother went on to have him officiate their weddings years later. Matt also helped us come up with a few visual ideas during the ceremony such as the mixing of sand, we loved that and still have it on our mantle. His kindness and joyful outlook really helped make our day special.
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    May 01, 2020

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    Michelle S.

    Pastor Matt is so relatable and down to earth, its hard not to connect with him. My husband and I really love that he is admittedly a normal guy just like everyone else. All the while, he speaks the truth of the gospel with grace, compassion and honesty. He is an outstanding person and we are so blessed to have met him 12 years ago as our wedding officiant/pastor. As a wedding officiant, Pastor Matt was humble and outright, as he declared the marriage covenant over us as read directly from the bible. He brought in a sweet and memorable hands poem that I had printed to hang in our bedroom on our 10th wedding anniversary. It was a lovely addition to our traditional vows. He was also quick on his feet to respond to my husbands brother when he played a silly joke during the exchange of rings. Pastor Matt has made a lasting impression on us as a couple and we are so grateful that the Lord led us to him all those years ago.
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    April 27, 2020

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    Megan C.

    We loved having Matt do our wedding! Matt was personable, used humor, anecdotes, and more to help make our ceremony personal and special. I would HIGHLY recommend Matt to officiate your ceremony. He is the best and we know you will love him just as much as we do!
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    April 24, 2020

    Frequently asked questions

    I meet with the couple to discuss their hopes and desires for the wedding ceremony and share ideas. We work through the details of the cermony and I provide input from my experience to help create the best possible outcome on the wedding day. I connect with the DJ and wedding coordinator if necessary, and then begin preparing for my involvement in the ceremony. I have one follow up conversation with the couple prior to the ceremony to make any last minute adjustments and offer support however I can.

    I've officiated over 100 wedding ceremonies that involve a variety of elements. I have no doubt I will be able to meet your expectations and help create the wedding of your dreams.

    I offer premarital counseling through an organization called Prepare. https://www.prepare-enrich.com. The assessment cost and 6 counseling sessions is $300. For the wedding ceremony I charge $50/hour, which includes meetings with the couple, preparation, travel and time at the wedding itself.

    I've been officiating weddings from the time I became a pastor after graduate school. I've had the priviledge of walking alonside many couples and celebrating their wedding day with them. 

    I've worked mostly with couples who are Christians, but I have officiated wedding for those who have no faith in God as well. I just really enjoy helping couples come together as one within the bond of marriage. 

    I officiated a wedding for friends in a hot air balloon over the hills in Napa Valley. It was an intimate ceremony with only best friends and parents present. We enjoyed breathtaking views of the valley while witnessing words of affection and love between the two of them. It was exceptional!

    In my opinion, the most important aspect of a wedding ceremony is the vow of love. I would make sure an officiant is going to talk about the significance of that promise.

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    Services offered

    Wedding Officiant