About
I enjoy taking the time to get to know the engaged couple and their story. I find that when an officiant gets to know the bride and groom, the ceremony tends to be more engaging and special not only for the couple, but for those attending the ceremony as well.
Couples will spend months planning for the wedding day, but very little time, if any, preparing for the marriage. I am certified to provide pre-marital coaching. During this time, we discuss traits and expectations that each bring to the marriage. Throughout the 6 week sessions, the couple learn more about one another, how to support each other, as well as potential quirks that could lead to passionate discussions.
I enjoy helping couples prepare for the big day and seeing them learn more about each other as they deepen their relationship and love for one another. What I enjoy the most is seeing the look on the groom's face as he turns around for the first time to see his soon to be wife walking down the aisle. It never gets old!
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Frequently asked questions
What is your typical process for working with a new customer?
I like to schedule about a 30-60 minute discussion getting to know the bride and groom to discuss thoughts and expectaitons. I also find that by knowing more about the couple adds something special to the ceremony.
Some couples are very detailed in what they want while others are more free spirited; either way, I want to ensure that I know what the expectations so that we can plan accordingly.
What education and/or training do you have that relates to your work?
I am SYMBIS certified to provide pre-marital coaching if desired.
Do you have a standard pricing system for your services? If so, please share the details here.
Pricing models will vary, but here are some of the standard options:
SYMBIS Assessment with 5 coaching sessions, Rehersal and Ceremony - $550
SYMBIS Assessment with 5 Sessions (Only) - $410
Consultation, Rehersal and Ceremony (Only) - $200
Financial Coaching - $65/hr 2 hour minimum
How did you get started in this business?
I became started in the industry when a couple from a young adult ministry I led became engaged and asked me to officiate their wedding ceremony in 2020.
What types of customers have you worked with?
Most of my clients have been young adults, some in college, some already starting their professional lives, and some in the military.
Each ceremony and couple are very different. Some couples know exactly what they want and others are more free spirited and go with the flow personalities.
Some brides will have wedding planners, giving me the opportunity to colaorate the bride's wishes; others will turn to me to provide direction on the big day.
Describe a recent event you are fond of.
There really is no way to narrow this down, however, there is something magical that happens the moment the groom turns around to see his bride for the first time walking down the aisle.
Being the father of a bride myself, there is always that moment when the a family member gives the bride away that is bitter sweet and emotional.
What advice would you give a customer looking to hire a pro in your area of expertise?
Take the time to find the officiant that is right for you. It is important that they have chemistry with the wedding couple.
Be open and don't be afraid to collaborate with the officiant. Do you want a serious wedding? do you want them to add jokes? Will the wedding be themed and the officiant needs to be prepared to dress as Elvis or perhaps a Star Wars Character?
Chances are you are not going to want the officiant in the first kiss photo, so during the rehersal, ask the officiant to practice moving out the shot while saying, "You may now kiss your bride!"
What questions should customers think through before talking to pros about their needs?
What are the family dynamics? Providing some insight will help the officiant to craft their ceremony.
Do you want a ceremony that speaks of God?
What scriptures do you want to ensure are included in the ceremony?
Do you need assisance with vows?
Do you want a serious wedding? do you want them to add jokes?
Will the wedding be themed and the officiant needs to be prepared to dress as Elvis or perhaps a Star Wars Character? It happens! :)