SoCal Christian Weddings

SoCal Christian Weddings

5.0Exceptional(8 reviews)

About

I'm a REAL PASTOR, and served 26 years as a NAVY CHAPLAIN. Working with you, together we fully customize your wedding/vow renewal ceremony to reflect the uniqueness of your relationship in a way that engages and inspires your guests! My many years of pastoral experience reassure nervous couples to help you enjoy your day; my detailed planning with you ensures the very best photos of your ceremony to enjoy for years to come, and safeguards against unwanted surprises. Relax, share the love, and enjoy the day, I've got this for you! Able to speak portions of your ceremony in Spanish or German. Serving all Southern California, willing to travel to all 50 states for you!

WHEN REQUESTING A QUOTE FOR SERVICE: Please be sure to tell me the venue & city for your ceremony, along with the date and time--even if you are still working out specific details, your best guess will help me provide you with the best information about my availability and fee--thank you!

ADDITIONAL SEPARATE OPTIONS:

--Premarital Relationship Coaching: 3 sessions of 90 minutes using insights from an online relationship assessment tool that over 1 million couples have used called SYMBIS (Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts). You also take online assessments for the MBTI (Myers-Briggs Type Indicator) and Love Languages. All assessments can be completed in under 60 minutes combined. Coaching can take place in person or via FaceTime/Skype/Zoom to anywhere! ($450, but if you also have me lead your ceremony there is either a $25 or $50 discount)

No matter how long you've been together, couples ALWAYS really love learning NEW things about themselves, their partner and their relationship...and although it sounds like bragging, it really is the wisest money you’ll spend in the entire wedding experience because you will enjoy enhanced intimacy for many years, long after the beauty of the flowers and taste of cake have faded.

--Sound equipment and Music: Need sound equipment? For larger ceremonies, it is best to have a DJ provide microphone and speakers, but if you don't have one, or if you're having a beach/backyard or small wedding, I can provide a wireless microphone and small but powerful speaker system, It can also play music by bluetooth for your ceremony. $40.00 additional charge...but well worth it so your guests can hear your vows!

--Photography/Videography: For very small weddings, I can set up my iPhone on my tripod to video record your ceremony. It works well, done it many times! We can have a 30 minute photo session afterwards in which I take a number of photos for you, using my equipment (or yours if you have a high quality camera).

--Other questions, special requests? Request a quote for service or contact me directly by cell/text at 951-234-6538, or visit www.SoCalChristianWeddings.com

I love helping couples have one of the best days of their lives by providing a romantic, fun, unique and meaningful wedding ceremony, all with the professionalism based on more than 30 years of experience leading weddings and other ministry events. It is a privilege for me to inspire guests/families with a super-personalized ceremony that upbeat and DEFINITELY NOT BORING! I have a unique way of sharing the couple's story, based on how they share three kinds of love we discuss in our planning: romantic/attraction love, friendship love, and unconditional commitment love. They are all distinct and essential for lifelong commitment. It's also a joy for me to be connected to many couples like an extended family member, and over time see them post pix on social to show they're expecting a baby, then baby pictures, kids growing up...I hit "like, heart" and congratulate couples on life accomplishments almost every day. I have literally hundreds of couples I am still connected to after many years. :-) It is also very rewarding to lead Relationship Coaching and help couples communicate more effectively and know their relationship will be better off for DECADES because they have learned about themselves and each other for reduced conflict and greater intimacy for lifelong love and commitment. Contact me today at 951-234-6538 or [email protected] on how I can serve you!


Highlights

Hired 5 times
2 employees
37 years in business
Serves Temecula , CA

Payment methods

Credit Card, Cash, Check, Venmo, Paypal, Zelle

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Specialties

Ceremony type

Wedding, Elopement, Vow renewal

Service type / affiliation

Christian, Catholic, Non-denominational (mentions God), Non-religious (no mention of God)

Number of guests

20 guests or fewer, 21 – 50 guests, 51 – 100 guests, 101 – 150 guests, 151 – 200 guests, 201 – 300 guests

Need help writing vows

I can work with couples who need help writing vows, I can work with couples who do not need help writing vows

Ceremony language(s)

English

Officiant needed at rehearsal

I do not need to attend rehearsals

Photos and videos

  • Twin Oaks House & Garden
  • Jordan and Kim
  • San Clemente Coast
  • Wedding Ring
  • Placing the Ring
  • Placing the Ring

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    lauren B.

    We are beyond thrilled with our experience with Jeff and Rebecca as our wedding officiants. From the first meeting, they made us feel at ease and genuinely listened to our vision for the ceremony. Jeff crafted a personalized and touching ceremony that perfectly reflected our love story and values.
    On the big day, Rebeccas delivery was both heartfelt and engaging, making the ceremony an unforgettable highlight of our wedding. Many of our guests commented on how beautiful and meaningful the ceremony was, thanks to Rebeccas personal touch.
    We couldn’t have asked for a better couple to lead us through this special time in our life.
    Thank you, Jeff and Rebecca, for helping make our wedding day perfect!
    Lauren & Ben
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    August 07, 2024

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    maya R.

    Pastor Jeff Saville went above and beyond to make sure that our wedding ceremony was perfectly planned out and customized based exactly on how my husband and I envisioned. He is meticulous and put in immense effort in preparation for our wedding day. He walks you through the ceremony and what is to be expected step-by-step and has rehearsals to ensure that the ceremony goes smoothly. He even gives advice regarding how to pose and where to stand to ensure that the photographer has a clear view of the bride and groom for the photos prior to the wedding and one more the day of the wedding. Our wedding ceremony was lovely and I couldnt have asked for a better Pastor to marry us. Thank you so much, Pastor. We were honored to have you.
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    August 05, 2024

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    alejandra R.

    We couldn’t have asked for a better officiant. Jeff was amazing. From the start he was very responsive and we had several zoom calls to finalize everything. This helped in making us feel very comfortable throughout the process. He even opened up his home for us to walk through a mini rehearsal, which was very helpful in preparing us for the big moment. He gave us a few ideas of what we could do throughout the ceremony to make it memorable. We ended up going with the wine ceremony, which we loved. He was very organized and professional. He even allowed us to pick what we wanted him to wear on our big day. The day of, Jeff was very prepared and handled everything perfectly. There was not one moment where we felt that we were up in front of everyone all alone. The ceremony went as planned and all of our guests loved his energy. Thanks again Jeff!!
    We couldnt have asked for a better officiant. Jeff was simply amazing. Right from the start, he was incredibly responsive, and we had several Zoom calls to finalize every detail, which made us feel very comfortable throughout the process. He even invited us to his home for a mini rehearsal, which was invaluable in preparing us for the big day.
    Jeff provided us with several ideas to make our ceremony memorable, and we chose to include a wine ceremony, which we absolutely loved. He was exceptionally organized and professional, even allowing us to choose his attire for our wedding.
    On the day of the ceremony, Jeff was thoroughly prepared and managed everything flawlessly. We never once felt alone in front of our guests. The ceremony proceeded exactly as planned, and all of our guests adored his energy. Thank you so much, Jeff!
    We can’t thank Jeff enough. From the star he was very professional and provided us so many choices to make our ceremony special. The zoom calls were helpful in getting to know each other on a personal level rather than just checking boxes. He introduced himself to our bridal party before our ceremony and made sure they knew their role. The ceremony went exactly as planned and Jeff was there every step of the way by giving us and our bridal party subtle cues. We couldn’t recommend Jeff enough.
    We cant thank Jeff enough. From the start, he was very professional and offered us numerous options to make our ceremony special. The Zoom calls were helpful in getting to know each other on a personal level rather than just checking boxes. He introduced himself to our bridal party before the ceremony and made sure everyone knew their role.
    The ceremony went exactly as planned, with Jeff providing subtle cues to guide us and our bridal party every step of the way. We couldnt recommend Jeff more highly
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    June 16, 2024

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    julie M.

    Jeff was wonderful to work with from the beginning, very organized and handled all the details. Coming across the country for our daughter’s wedding to have Jeff perform was great since we couldn’t have our own pastor come. He made it so easy for us. Having someone who believes the way we do was important to us as well. We definitely recommend Pastor Jeff.
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    May 22, 2024

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    savanah M.

    Jeff did an amazing job from start to finish! When we logged onto the zoom call we did not know what to expect but Jeff made is super easy and exciting to learn about his services and what to expect on our wedding day. He is very kind, helpful, funny, and professional, and all around made the ceremony go by smoothly! He was super helpful when it came to how to write personalized vows as well as showing us many options to choose from personalizing what will be said in the ceremony. He made the ceremony perfect and was exactly what we were looking for! We are so thankful to have had him at our wedding. I definitely recommend to book him!
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    May 09, 2024

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    kiara S.

    Jeff was amazing from start to finish. He took his time to get to know us and nothing ever felt rushed. He was great in providing feedback and gave us so much useful information for our wedding ceremony. He is great at what he does and I still have guests talking about how great the ceremony was! So grateful as our ceremony was truly the highlight of the wedding. So thankful for Jeff in being part of this!
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    May 03, 2024

    Frequently asked questions

    I will email you a very detailed quote for service including a sample but highly customizable ceremony. If you like it, we can set up a video call by Google Meet, Zoom or Facetime to get acquainted, see if we have good chemistry and answer questions. Either during or after the video call, you can choose to reserve my service with a $350 retainer to reserve the date. I will then send you homework for you to make decisions about customizing your ceremony, and we have another video call to customize the ceremony. If you choose my Gold or Silver level of ceremony and if you live close enough to visit, I invite you to my Temecula home for a private mini-rehearsal of your customized ceremony. Finally, on the day of the ceremony I arrive an hour ahead of time to ensure everything goes smoothly. Final payment is due ten days prior to the ceremony.
    I have a Master of Divinity and Doctor of Ministry degrees from Fuller Seminary, and have been ordained by the Evangelical Covenant Church since 1989.  I have been  certified for Relationship Coaching by Prepare and Enrich since 1992, and with SYMBIS since 2019.  I have led 15 Marriage Enrichment Retreats for over 350 couples since 2012.  I have been happily married to my one and only wife since 1988. 

    I have three levels of service: Gold, Silver and Bronze. Gold is what nearly every couple chooses because it has the most personalization. The Silver level has a lot of customization too, but with a little less personalization and it’s about 3 minutes shorter. Bronze is a “standard” ceremony for only super small weddings of 10 guests or less—very minimal customization. The fees for everything described above: for Gold service only $745.00, Silver only $695.00, Bronze $495.00. I’m not the least expensive officiant but you aren’t likely to find someone who is a very experienced real pastor (500+ weddings lifetime) who will super-personalize and customize your ceremony does as much as I do (in the Gold and Silver levels), and do as much as I do for you—that’s why I have the number and quality of reviews I have. (Note: to travel more than 60 minutes one-way from Temecula, there may be a small additional travel fee.)
    I am a real minister who served in several civilian churches and as a Navy chaplain, so doing weddings has been a natural part of my work since 1987. When I was nearing retirement from the Navy, in 2014 I put myself on the internet to serve more couples for God-honoring weddings. When I actually retired in 2018, conducting weddings and offering optional premarital counseling has become my full time work--and I love it!
    The couples I have served have been young and old, from 19 to 80, every ethnicity/skin color there is, from many different faith experiences (majority are people of Christian faith, whether some form of Protestant or Roman Catholic). Some couples ask for part of the wedding to be in Spanish; I have led many weddings that way. I can even do part of the wedding in German too!

    Services offered

    Wedding Officiant